Was Jesus Married?

The Inside Story of a Controversial New Text About Jesus

According to a top religion scholar, this 1,600-year-old text fragment suggests that some early Christians believed Jesus was married—possibly to Mary Magdalene

• By Ariel Sabar
• Smithsonian.com, September 18, 2012

Read more: http://www.smithsonianmag.com/history-archaeology/The-Inside-Story-of-the-Controversial-New-Text-About-Jesus-170177076.html#ixzz27a31Q1XG

Queen of Heaven

Queen of Heaven

Ave Maria-Franz Biebl- Chanticleer

 John Rutter's "Ave Maria" NYC Master Chorale

Schubert's "Ave Maria" Luciano Pavarotti

I grew up going to a main line reformed church during the 1970s.  At my church, there were women who were elders and deacons.  Sadly, it wasn’t until I had graduated from college did I realize that women could be ordained as a minister in my denomination (note: twenty years after this was allowed).  I thought this was great; I could finally hear a feminine view point of God.  But talking with other women there seemed to be a push back.  Many felt ministers should be a men’s only field.  God was a man of course.

Queen of Heaven

I confess I have coveted my Catholic friends who have Mary.  She was someone I could relate to.  Looking at her statue, Mary was approachable in a motherly and nurturing kind of way.  Her arms were always open ready for you to come and get a big hug.  God on the other hand, seemed standoffish ready to smite and punish.  Sure he was presented as a loving father, but if you’re having cramps and cramps were taught to be a part of God’s punishment for Eve’s sin – a girl is less likely to ask God to help cope.  Mary on the other hand – she gets it.     Mary gets it when your heart is broken over a boy who said he was in love with you and was dating someone else.  Mary gets it when you found out that the guys were getting more money at the same low paying job.  Mary gets it when you walked through your high school hallway and are called nasty sexually oriented names or are called (fill in the blank).  Mary has walked in my shoes as a woman.

I’m not saying that my church didn’t present women heroes of the Bible.  Yes, I learned about Deborah, Esther and Ruth.  I learned about the Marys, Lydia and Pricilla in the New Testament and the many nameless women who were someone’s mother or seen at (Name the place).  Yes there was the Holy Spirit – that seemed to be genderless and having some feminine characteristics.  But, for me, I always felt the Holy Spirit was sort felt slapped on at the Doxology after the Father, Son as an after thought.

I needed the feminine in my spiritual approach.

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Snake Goddess

One of the influential books I read about women, theology and politics was The Serpent and the Goddess: Women, Religion, and Power in Celtic Ireland by Mary Condren.  What made this book so powerful for me was Condren’s historical descriptions of how ancient women’s symbols were eliminated or reduced to handmaidens.  I learned how Ireland changed with the introduction of Christianity.  It took less than five centuries to dismantle women from religion and politics.   “Finally, in the twelfth century, the Abbess of Kildare, who up till then had played a huge symbolic role in Irish culture, was raped by the soldiers of Dermot MacMurrough, and that symbolically and practically put an end to that lineage” (Lawless, Andrew, Interview Mary Condren).

Black Madonna, Rocmadoar France 

As Christianity was introduced throughout Europe it followed the Roman tradition by renaming the local Goddess as Mary.  The Goddess now disguised as Mary was able to maintain her residence (i.e., established shrine or temple).  However, most often her local temple was destroyed and a new church was built directly on the site all in order to further cloak the truth.  The new priests incorporated her prayers into their services.  Thus the Goddess was able to maintain her traditions she was accustomed to despite her new veneer.

There are numerous examples of how this occurred.  Mary was declared the Mother of God by the seventh century Christian Council of Ephesus.   Ephesus was home to the great temple for Diana.  This title is Diana’s.  In Southern Italy and Southern France Isis was worshiped.  Following the introduction of Christianity, Isis became the Black Madonna.

During the reformation, the protestants considered Mary’s statues as graven images – breaking the second commandment (“Thou shalt have no other gods before me.  Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth” Exodus).   The reformed churches agreed that Christ had a virgin birth through Mary – but to call her the Mother of God went too far.  Many statues and Marion art were destroyed during this time.

The reformers didn’t stop with Mary.  Women were also called into question.  There was a continual debate as to if women were really human beings.  Poor Eve, the first woman blamed for the original sin and for mankind punishment of leaving Eden and having to work.  Women were held guilty by just being a woman.  Any bad occurrence or misfortune was blamed on a woman.  Many women were burnt to death. 

Understanding the church’s history and the treatment of women makes it hard to stay.  Still I work for restoring the feminine - there's a great need for someone like the Queen of Heaven to be reintroduced – the balance still missing from the church.   Mary the Goddess in disguise.

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Mary’s I have visited. 

Mary Shrine, Carrey, Ohio

Mother Cabrini Shrine, Denver Colorado

Blessed Virgin Mother Statue, Cologne, Germany

Virgin Mary Statue, Mission of San Xavier, Tucson, Arizona

Bohemian Quests

“We travel, some of us forever, to seek other states, other lives, other souls.” ~ Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 7: 1966-1974

“[T]he most important reason for going from one place to another is to see what's in between, and they took great pleasure in doing just that.” ~ Norton Juster, The Phantom Tollbooth

“I am always in quest of being open to what the universe will bring me.” ~ Jill Bolte Taylor

In his book, The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Joseph Campbell outlined a narrative pattern that has appeared in many heroes’ tales outlined in twelve steps.  These cultural tales begin with an ordinary person call to adventure.  Many times, the hero is reluctant and has to be push forward.  We then follow them as they go on to achieve great deeds on behalf of a group or for humanity. 

I’ve always asked the questions about Campbell’s hero’s quests – who determines who can be a hero?  Are we not each capable of becoming one?  What are considered great deeds?  Sure discovering the cure for cancer is heroic, but isn’t the hospice nurse who midwives death a hero too?  Finally, who has the time to go on a formal quest?  Isn’t one who has financial and social responsibilities to a family, capable of a quest too even if they can’t give up a year or two?  What if you can’t afford a pilgrimage to a cool place – can’t you have a quest in your backyard too?

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Bohemian Coffee House Baltimore, MD 

To me, the underlying purpose of a quest is to stretch us to look at our soul differently.  I see it also as a mechanism for reconnection with our soul’s true calling.  According to Campbell, the hero goes off on their adventure after they are called; meets new people; goes through some tests and trials; and comes back different and is able to share this experience with a group of friends.  I have often wondered what would happen if we looked at our day long journey as a quest?  How would our view of the mundane be different?  Would we live differently?

This is why I came up with the term Bohemian Quests. 

A Bohemian Quest is about looking at the ordinary or the boring or the humdrum in an uncommon way.  A Bohemian Quest is about changing your perceptions – shaking things up.  For example, at lunch I take a 30 minute walk.  I usually go one particular route and the houses and shops now have become a familiar blur.  But if a purposely change the direction of the walk a paradigmatic change always occurs in my perception.  I always manage to say – “there’s a church on the corner?”  “I didn’t know there was a coffee shop there?”

A Bohemian Quest is about creating quiet space to listen to our heart without the cell phone or e-mail blasts distracting us.  This may occur in a bookshop, a coffee shop or hiking in the woods.  Here, you can meet new people.  A Bohemian Quest may include signing up for a watercolor class or changing up your chore list from kitchen, bathroom and grocery store to grocery store, kitchen and bathroom.

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Julia Cameron prescribed 3 tools for becoming a creative person: Daily Journal, Walking and Having an Artist Date.  I would describe a Bohemian Quest as fulfilling an artist date.  The purpose of the date is to spend a few hours a week doing something out of the ordinary.  It’s about feeding, refueling and nourishing the inner creative you.  It is about making your brain see things a little different from the way you usually do things. 

Cameron provides several examples.  Here are some of my favorites: hang out at a coffee shop and listen in on conversations, see an art film, go to Joanne Fabrics, go and see a live band concert, go to a park and sit under a tree, go to a flea market, go to poetry night reading…..

Activities:

Take a Bohemian Quest

 Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey stages are:

1.        THE ORDINARY WORLD.  The hero, uneasy, uncomfortable or unaware, is introduced sympathetically so the audience can identify with the situation or dilemma.  The hero is shown against a background of environment, heredity, and personal history.  Some kind of polarity in the hero’s life is pulling in different directions and causing stress.

2.        THE CALL TO ADVENTURE.  Something shakes up the situation, either from external pressures or from something rising up from deep within, so the hero must face the beginnings of change. 

3.        REFUSAL OF THE CALL.  The hero feels the fear of the unknown and tries to turn away from the adventure, however briefly.  Alternately, another character may express the uncertainty and danger ahead.

4.        MEETING WITH THE MENTOR.  The hero comes across a seasoned traveler of the worlds who gives him or her training, equipment, or advice that will help on the journey.  Or the hero reaches within to a source of courage and wisdom.

5.        CROSSING THE THRESHOLD.  At the end of Act One, the hero commits to leaving the Ordinary World and entering a new region or condition with unfamiliar rules and values. 

6.        TESTS, ALLIES AND ENEMIES.  The hero is tested and sorts out allegiances in the Special World.

7.        APPROACH.  The hero and newfound allies prepare for the major challenge in the Special world.

8.        THE ORDEAL.  Near the middle of the story, the hero enters a central space in the Special World and confronts death or faces his or her greatest fear.  Out of the moment of death comes a new life.

9.        THE REWARD.  The hero takes possession of the treasure won by facing death.  There may be celebration, but there is also danger of losing the treasure again.

10.      THE ROAD BACK.  About three-fourths of the way through the story, the hero is driven to complete the adventure, leaving the Special World to be sure the treasure is brought home.  Often a chase scene signals the urgency and danger of the mission.

11.     THE RESURRECTION.  At the climax, the hero is severely tested once more on the threshold of home.  He or she is purified by a last sacrifice, another moment of death and rebirth, but on a higher and more complete level.  By the hero’s action, the polarities that were in conflict at the beginning are finally resolved.

12.       RETURN WITH THE ELIXIR.  The hero returns home or continues the journey, bearing some element of the treasure that has the power to transform the world as the hero has been transformed.

Purification – cleansing our thoughts

“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.”  ~ Buddha

“Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace.” ~Buddha

“Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Lammas Day here in Ohio was really hot and humid.  The celebration I attended had an outdoors fire going.  This managed to create enough heat to perhaps bake bread.  A quick sniff test – I was relieved to learn that my deodorant was still managing to give off its “spring fresh” scent throughout the ceremony.     

A couple of weeks later my leader sent out a quick post evaluation of the event. The lack of purification came up quite a few times in his observation.  The noted lack of purification seemed odd to me, because it seems like common knowledge that you should do this before going to any ceremonial event: keeping Sabot, wedding ceremonies, visiting a new baby, going out to dinner at a nice restaurant for someone's birthday…..

Purification or ritual cleansing before any ceremonies is an ancient tradition.  It’s done in order to prepare the physical body to act as a liaison between the spiritual and physical plane.  A cleansing before a ritual or ceremony is done to wash away residual energy both seen and unseen.

I can see some of you doing the hand flip of “yea right” on the unseen stuff.

Think about this - have you ever been in an office that causes your neck hairs to rise?  Or perhaps you’re at a person’s house and as you move room to room it feels like cobwebs are sticking to your arm.  Have you ever sat through a meeting where everyone is arguing and you end up with one whopping headache?

That “stuff” you are feeling is sticking to your body’s energy field until you remove it. 

Think of that “stuff” as a piece of dust you find in your sofa.  Look at it closely, there’s a lot of stuff there: hair, cookie crumbs, lint and that button you’ve been looking for since….Get the picture?  This is what surrounds your energy field and ultimately effects how you think and feel. 

I’ve found there seems to be a lot written about how to cleanse the physical body and the physical environment (i.e., purification bathes, aura cleansing, appropriate ritual clothing, listing of cleansing herbs, smudging and salt containers to pull out negative energy), but not so much on how to purify the mind/thoughts and heart. 

Spending time on Navajo Nation, my preceptor told me that thoughts are silent messages out to the universe. Negative thoughts have a way of putting a kink into the universe.  I think of them as the sludge that gunks up the magic in the world.  In car terms, it is the very reason why you need to change your oil – if you don’t your engine might halt, that red light might turn on which leads to a sizable mechanics fee.  The red light under magical conditions can mean that intended love spell has now been directed to another or has been transformed into lust.  Examples of my gunk include:  focusing on what the heck I’m going to do with all those tomatoes; stressed out on how I’m going to get all those tasks done at work, or anxious about my son’s grades. 

I’ve brought the importance of mental cleansing up before a ceremony before.  I feel people seem to brush me off saying: “Oh.  Did that.” or “Good thoughts, check.”  When people tell me this, I feel mental cleansing has been reduced to an easy and quick process like lathering up your hands with lavender soap.  When I have this type of attitude, I’ve found that I tend to be distracted or show a lack of concentration in my work.  To me, purifying the mind goes beyond ticking off “positive thoughts.”  It requires a time and space devoted to introspection, personal change and self-control.

Much of the written work done regarding how to purify the mind has been completed by both the Buddhist and Yoga communities.  The common key is looking at how we react to patterns.  This is done through meditation by doing a mental check in about noticing what is going on in your mind without judgments and accepting it. 

Activity:

Meditation - there are a lot of great meditations out there on Youtube.  

Still Swimming

Sorry all for not posting.  I promise by after next week I will catch up.

We are down a co-worker at work and well how do you describe it - I'm swimming.

I am also trying to get use to semesters.  The state of Ohio changed all their colleges and universities to semesters and the dance doesn't feel right yet.

But not to worry - after I get into the rhythm all will be right.

So I sitting back and practicing.

Peace out all and enjoy the rest of the summer.

Mirror Mirror Spell Tries to Reek Havoc at the Olympics

Yes, I've been tuned to the Olympics these past two weeks.  I can only dream of competing at the level these amazing athletes have done across my TV screen.

This has been an amazing historic Olympics.  Every country competing has sent women athletes.  How cool is that? And a man with prosthetic legs made it to the semi finals in his race.... Amazing. 

Saddly, the Mirror Mirror Spell has showed up.  I’ve hyperlinked to three articles.  All I can say is: “Really?”  I thought the Olympics are about playing your game at the top level with athletes from all over the world.  The ancient Greeks used the games to honor the Gods and Goddesses.  Focusing on one's hair and body shapes and sizes to tear another down isn't about honoring the temple of another or honoring any Gods or Goddesses for that matter.  

I heard a quote yesterday - "We are all images of love only we come in different disguises and with different talents."  I think this concept is another key in breaking the Mirror Mirror Spell.  

Olympic Weightlifter Holley Mangold Says Get Over Her Fat

Deborah Dunham

Since when did the Olympics become all about being sexy versus competing, representing your country and striving for a gold medal? Like, suddenly the way a female athlete looks is an open invitation for the body-snarking, fat-shaming comments to begin. But if you ask American weightlifter, Holley Mangold (who happens to be the heaviest woman at the Games this summer), she is proud of her weight and is fighting back–and so are many other Olympic women. (Read More)

Read more: http://blisstree.com/look/olympic-weightlifter-holley-mangold-says-get-over-her-fat-738/#ixzz234JC0nKW

Fat? We are fit. Get over it, say women athletes

Brenda Goldsmith

American weightlifter Holley Mangold tips the scales at 346 pounds (157 kilograms) and she is proud of being the heaviest woman at the London Olympics.

Mangold, 22, who competed in the women's 75 kilogram-plus division, is one of growing number of women athletes speaking out at their frustration with the public scrutiny of their body size and image rather than their fitness and skills.

At the 2012 Olympics, a list of top female athletes have hit back at critics who have called them fat including British heptathlon champion Jessica Ennis, Australian swimmer Liesel Jones, and the Brazilian women's soccer team. (Read More) http://news.yahoo.com/fat-fit-over-women-athletes-193539328--spt.html

Gabby Douglas' Hair: How Did Olympic History Turn Into A Hair Debate?

Julee Wilson

As the controversy surrounding Gabby Douglas' hair drags on, we're left wondering: how did it get to this point?

It's still shocking that while Douglas was busy rewriting Olympic history and making the country proud, a string of negative Twitter comments about her "unkempt" hair stole the spotlight. Some are blaming the media for that shift in focus to Douglas' hair, while others see the story as a segue into a much broader subject: black women's hair.  (Read More) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/08/gabby-douglas-hair-debate_n_1756835.html

Pilgrimages – Stepping out

The Pilgrimage, Stephanie Dalton. this is a mixed media piece 

Pilgrim:  1. one who journeys to a foreign land: Wayfarer. 2.  One who travels to a shrine or holy place as a devotee.  Merriam-Webster Dictionary on-line.

"All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware." ~ Martin Buber

“We cannot become what we want to be by remaining what we are.” ~Max DePree

“Changing the way you do routine things allows a new person to grow inside you." ~ Paulo Coelho

“That’s the thing with fear though. When it overtakes your heart, your vision becomes shortsighted. You forget the grand beauty of life. The knowledge that the Universe is here to take care of you becomes a thought only for those Annoying Optimists.” ~ Thais Guimaraes

Pilgrimage

In a couple of weeks I will be traveling and hiking with a friend to celebrate her 25^th year of being cancer free.  We are journeying to the Canadian Rockies with spectacular views.  Our agreed upon mission:  taking the time to renew and nourish our spirit. 

It was fantastic to discover that we’re hiking in a sacred place to the ancient ones and native peoples.  The area has been called a living cathedral with sacred loving and healing energies.  My initial research showed this place would reinforce our pre-planned mission.  We’d be pilgrims trekking, being in relationship with this land and beings; allowing the sacred to enter within, and being opened to learn new ways of seeing. 

In her book, The Celtic Spirit, Caitlin Matthews writes about the difference in being a tourist and a pilgrim.  She states both enjoy the looking and exploring a place, but the pilgrim goes deeper in their engagement with the land.  When we arrive at a sacred site we are opened to the “ancestral guardians and spiritual presence who have awaited for our coming” (16).  She also writes that the land can restore and nourish our soul and body.  Matthews reminds us to not forget a thank-you gift to the land and its beings that includes a grateful heart (317).

I’ve continued my research and have begun thinking of what gifts I should bring to the guardians of this land I will be visiting.

  

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Pilgrim’s Blessing

By Caitlin Matthews

Though the long tracks know no glad step,

And the circle goes unblessed.

From their long homes may the old ones

Welcome travelers upon their quest

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Pilgrimage: From Paris to Compostela by Jerome Tupa

In the late 1980s, I had just read the Alchemist by Paulo Coelho and discovered another book he had written:  The Pilgrimage.  It’s a creative non-fictional account about his Santiago de Compostela pilgrimage.  Coelho takes the journey to ultimately discover himself.  Before his trip, Coelho’s spiritual teacher told him he needed to change things up.  He was spiritually stuck in his comfort zone and playing it safe.  Ultimately his teacher said either go on this adventure or find another teacher.  Coelho grouchily packed his suitcase and boarded the plane.  The story is about love, joy and pain and the tremendous spiritual growth he gained.

Early on in my exploration of WOW-sites, I learned that many Celtic Christian sites were originally pagan.  Initially, the Christian church began destroying and taking down these ancient holy sites.  They soon realized that their method of violence and destruction didn’t have a positive effect on converting the Celtic people to this new religion.  The church took another tactic, take over the site and build a church on it or sprinkle the statue with holy water and call it Christian. 

If people aren’t familiar with this pilgrimage or also called “The Way,” this is one of those Christian converted Celtic sites.  The Way dates back to the ancients.  Starting in southern France, the road travels across Northern Spain following the edge of the Milky Way and also believed a major ley line.  For Christians the road ends at the Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela, but for the ancients the road ends on shores of the Atlantic Ocean.  The Way became a popular pilgrimage during medieval times; it was a relatively cheap and safe trip to do penitence rather than traveling off to Jerusalem.    

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Soulfaring

By Susanna Reece

Blessed are those who don’t even want to begin,

preferring the sunbeam surface to the dark

uncharted oceans below.

Blessed are those who dive in anyway,

anyhow, who know how to equip themselves

with oxygen, a diving-suit, lights, a lifeline.

Blessed are those who’ve plumbed the depths

many times, the underwater cartographers

who are never complacent.

Blessed are those who risk all, plunging

to the ocean floor, living at the breathless

edge between death and adventure.

And blessed are those who return with news

of coral pink cities and creamy white

pearls beyond price.

Activity

Caitin Matthews Exercises for Pilgrims

Find out where your own nearest source of sacred water is to be found.  What are the traditions surrounding it?  Go and visit it if you can, and experience the waters for yourself.

Meditate upon your favorite place in the country and visit it in soul-flight.  Consult the spirit of the place and ask its advice and permission about your next visit.  Ask what gift (a song or a blessing, perhaps –something that will not harm the land) would be acceptable.  Do this whenever a visit is planned.