The Boyhood of Raleigh by Sir John Everett Milais 1870, Tate London |
“If stories come to you, care for them. And learn to give
them away where they are needed. Sometimes a person needs a story more than
food to stay alive. “ ~ Barry Lopez, in Crow and Weasel
“It takes a thousand voices to tell a single story.” ~ Native
American saying
“In seeking truth you have to get both sides of a story.” ~ Walter
Cronkite
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I like a good storyteller, singer, poet or bard (I’ll refer
to now as storyteller). A day off from
work in the winter equates to snuggling up in an afghan with my nose in a
book. And that dreaded housework, blast
some good songs out and it seems to get my mind off scrubbing the tub. Every culture has someone who has these gifts
that go beyond entertainment. This
person is able to manipulate their medium to instill moral lessons and provide
inspiration to move us beyond what we are.
A good storyteller makes you say: what if or I can do that or how can I
change the world?
One thing I have enjoyed this past year is reading all
the blogs on the Pagan Blog Project.
Each person has been my guide in shaping my journey towards the
Light. Each has continued to challenge
me to review my personal truth and stories and most often changing my
perspective in how I live magically. The
Pagan Blog Project has allowed me to hear multiple stories from different and
the same faith tradition. Each is a
piece of the puzzle or a beautiful square in a quilt to wrap around myself.
I think it is human nature to
want one way of knowing – a single story to hang our witch’s (name your faith)
hat on. I believe it’s very easy to resist hearing others’ ways of seeing holy
and spiritual even when you are practicing the same faith tradition. When we do this, I believe we’re ending up
with an incomplete story. Our story
becomes one dimensional and dulled as we look through our single lens. And, ultimately what winds up happening is
discord and lack of respect for those who have a different story because we are
in The Only Truth zone – us versus them.
I believe our experience is flattened by this dependency of having one
story or one recipe for the truth.
I recently read the minutes of
a spirituality group I’m part of. I’m
not able to attend many meetings due to being a soccer mother and going to college. I was very saddened to hear a person who
offered to teach for the evening was disrespected. The teacher was presenting an element of his
practice. Apparently, there was a lot of heckling and
jeering to make him lose his train of thought.
The more I read the minutes; I felt the audience was caught up in their
single lens story and not opened to hearing something new.
I’m guilty of immersing myself
in a single story. I tend to fall back
to my favorite books and authors that started my journey. The same can be said on the Pagan Blog
Project. I’ve found myself leaning to
the familiar – specifically looking at what my age group is saying and those
with similar practices. When I have
caught myself doing this – with purpose I get on the home page and read subject
matter that I’m not familiar with. I
have discovered ideas that I are strengthening my magical living - such as learning
about Norse faith, seeing Goddess symbols out in nature, learning more about herbs,
or learning new ways to celebrate the holidays.
Activity:
Pick a spiritual subject and read three different blogs about the subject.
Go to a meet-up on a spiritual topic and be open to learn something new.
Very good point. It is more comfortable to stay within our story but the rewards of stepping beyond our comfort zone can be huge.
ReplyDeleteYes it is. Chimamanda Adichie spoke on a TED. She talked about single stories when it comes to people. If you only hear the story about African people as being poor you don't get the whole story about African people - there are middle class people like here and college educated people like here. The same can be said about what story is told about Mexican people in America. If you go an visit you get a whole different picture - another story so to speak. When it comes to spirituality - I think we need to get both sides of the story - if I can quote Walter.
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