So I had the mad feeling to give the the I Hate You Jar yesterday. Sometimes I wonder about people. Why do they say the things they do - why don't they have empathy for others.
Someone commented on how I garden - and so my front yard garden isn't in the prestine order. Why? I work full time and I'm a mom with two kids in sports and I just finished planting a 20'x19' garden of veggies. So I took it out on the jar.
Then all I could think of - really I am allowing this person to dig into my heart and enables me to put out bad energy. So I told the jar off and said I'm done with this.
Then I had empathy for the person who said it - they are in pain and not aging with grace and not able to remember when they were parents of teens and worked full time. And, I gave it over to Motherfather spirit. Why? I told myself really - really - after 49 years you are going to let events like this drag you down and consume your mind?
It's done and wow that was fast only 24 hours.